The Wedding Ceremony was more beautiful than you ever expected
it to be. There were tears in your eyes as the vows were being
read and everyone present there was absolutely mesmerized by
the whole affair. They would probably not forget this wedding
for a long time to come now. After experiencing all this, you
definitely do not want to dampen the spirits of everyone present
there by giving an average sounding and forgettable toast.
Tips on a Successful Toast/Speech...
1. Aim: Before giving a speech, think about how you want
your guests to react. Do you want them to laugh or choke with
emotion? Depending on that, you will have to do your research
and get your facts straight. Remember you don't want the bride
or the groom or the parents or your wife embarrassed in front
of everyone.
2. Structure: Always structure your speech. There should
be an opening, the body and the closing. This is a tried and
tested formula so try and stick to it.
-If you are the groom giving the speech, you can include personal
stories like the first time you met your wife, how did you feel
and how lucky you are.
-If you are the father of the bride or the groom, you can include
any funny stories about them growing up.
-If you are the best man or the maid of honour giving a speech,
you can talk about your friendship with them.
3. Keep it short and positive: Wedding is a celebration
of two people coming together. So always keep the toast positive.
Try not to extend it for more than 5-7 minutes.
4. Have a strong opening and closing: For the guests
to remember your speech always make sure your opening and closing
is good. The first and the last impressions always count.
5. Eye Contact: It is always important to keep eye contact
with the guests. You can jot down points on hand cards to keep
you going.
6. Alcohol after the Toast: Try not to have too much
of alcohol before the speech. Remember during the toast all
eyes will be on you.
7. Rehearse: Last but not the least, practice your toast
or let at least someone read it before the big day.
Now that you ready with everything, go ahead and make the wedding,
anniversary or a golden anniversary a memorable day not only
for couple but everyone present there.